Hi Annie,
I spent all day thinking about David's and your response to my question. I think it was Lin Pardey who wrote about how to make your wife happy on-board a boat (sorry if it was in fact you!). With regard to that, I think that the gaff schooner would be fine for me, were I alone, because I do like the "sport" of sailing and am willing to deal with a little bit of hardship (especially since I don't know what I'm missing ;))
However, it would make it much harder for my little lady to be happily involved in sailing the boat. She's a sailing novice and all of a skinny 1.59m (5'2") and I can't imagine her wrestling the mainsail into a reef. She'd have a much nicer time on a junk, especially with a self-tailing winch for the sheet and hoisting.
Another important point, paraphrased from your book, is that since it's much easier to make sail with a junk, we'd end up using the boat more for day-sailing excursions.
Thanks for your thoughts!
Regards,
Maxime